Mark mumbled early this morning some plans involving scotch and the ringing out of “this horrid year”.
But doctors believe breast cancer takes six to eight years to develop to a detectable size and this was the year we caught it, cut it out, clubbed it and commenced construction of kick-ass “KEEP OUT” mechanisms.
So I say, “Thank You, 2009.”
… and good riddance!
Other happenings that rocked our 2009:
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January 14
Nortel (my employer at the time) seeks Chapter 11 bankruptcy protection in the United States and Canada. Not a huge surprise but it definitely rocked our world. |
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February 24
We adopt our pooch, Phaedra. After 6 years of daily pleading, coercing, negotiating and plotting, we caved in. Little did we know she would become my very own Dr. White. |
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March 30
I leap from Nortel, and 22 years of software development, to a 12-month term position as a Technical Writer at EDC. It was my first time without health benefits in my entire adult life, but it was walking distance from home and a chance to swap the stress of software development for the creative bliss of writing. |
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April 5
My “father”, Keith Ross, attempts to break into our home, spends who knows how long smashing on our front door, screaming through our mail slot and tearing out our mail slot and curtain. As traumatic as this was for our entire family, it marked a clean endpoint of what has been an extremely painful, life long dysfunctional relationship. |
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July 6
Lucy attends her very first sleep-away camp. It was a week at Time Travellers at Upper Canada Village where she and 40 other youngsters dressed in period costume and lived the role of an 1860s child. Lucy LOVED every minute of it! |
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August 15
I’m reunited with my long lost cousin, Kelly Clavette. Kelly was my favourite cousin and a constant holiday companion throughout my childhood. We lost touch in our tweens. Thirty years later, Kelly and I “almost accidentally” reconnected and our renewed friendship with Kelly and her family brings our whole family true joy daily. |
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October 6
My diagnosis bridges the gap between myself and Mark’s parents, Rhoda and Bert Blevis. Religious differences, unclear expecations and my own social anxiety had made my relationship with Mark’s parents a rocky one but the minute they received news of my diagnosis, Rhoda and Bert let bygones be bygones and promptly made themselves available to support our little family in any and every way. We couldn’t have made it this far (this sane) without their unbelievable support. |
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October 12
My diagnosis reunites me with my long lost brother, David Ross. I’ve missed my little bro terribly and, regardless of the circumstances, I’m thrilled that we’re in each others’ lives again. |
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November 25
Mark abandons his own media endeavours and takes an exciting new position as a digital public affairs strategist with Fleishman-Hillard. Health benefits and insurance and security, Oh My! |
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December 18
Our friend Caroline Coady announces she is cured of Stage 4 Colon Cancer. WooHoo!!! |
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December 21
Mark’s long time friend David O’Farrell loses his battle with cancer. |
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December 22
I revel in 14 years of Mark Blevis. On December 22, 1995, while on a date with someone else and thanks to a huge number of coincidences, I met Mark Blevis. Lucky me! We’ve doubled the seven year itch and I’m still itching to be with this fabulous guy. |
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Thank you, 2009… Bring On 2010!! |
