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Slumpin

I’m extremely grateful to be alive and healthy.

But boy are things frustrating me this week.

Finances. Time pressures. And a whole slew of thorn-in-my-side people.

Calgon take me away.

Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

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Andrea Posted by Andrea November 16, 2010

November 16, 2010 at 4:31 pm.

13 comments

  • http://twitter.com/bobledrew Bob LeDrew

    How dare you not be an inspiration 24/7/365 and uplift me? God, some people. It’s almost as if you have a right to feel tired & frustrated sometimes. Courage. Things will go on.

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    I feel guilty when I feel the old pre-c frustration even though I am actually very thrilled to be alive and healthy. Then it goes vicious circle. Maybe you can relate.n

  • http://www.facebook.com/elizabeth.able Elizabeth Able

    When I’m afraid that something is too good to be true I hold back. That part of me is very strong and very stubborn, and I have yet to convince myself it’s entirely wrong. However, it doesn’t need the stress of being in charge of the important stuff, so I try to feed it little accomplishments like singing in the shower or warm muffins eaten while sitting on a park bench at dawn.nnJust sayin’ – you don’t have to be good at the big stuff all the time. :)

  • Sheree Fitch

    Andrea—- here is ditty for you : I’m allowed to be grumpy and gratefuln Happy and pissed just not hatefuln I can wail and will roarn Just the same as before n GD bills — i’ve still got a whole platefuln So give a narggh give a shit give a pisspopp god damn n I’m real and I’m here – yeah! That’s who I am! n ARRRAAAGHH! n

  • Cousin Betti

    I love Sheree’s little ditty, too funny! Hang in there Andrea. Sending you big HUGS!!

  • Jay

    Hang in there. I am so cheering you up tonight! And in the meantime, don’t beat yourself up. You’re allowed to feel your feelings without any guilt attached.

  • janice

    Hugs. I guess cancer survival does not turn you into a saint. Darn. Life still has its ups and downs. This too shall pass (and return, and pass again . . . ). Love you.

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    Thank you, Elizabeth.nnI took your advice and treated myself to a delicious Wild Oat muffin — and coffee — this morning. And said no to the inner gremlins who chastise loudly when I eat anything other than veggies and protein. nnIt was delicious.nnThanks!

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    SO perfect. Thank you, Sheree!!!nnThat’s who I am, alright! Arraaagh!!!nxoxox

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    Me too. Thank you, Betty!

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    You so cheered me up tonight, Jay. Thanks for everything.nCan’t wait for next week

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    Thank you all for your support. Just publishing this post lightened my load. Your kindness, care and good humour warmed me right up. Thank you.nxo

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