We Can Rebuild Her
Better than she was before… Better, Stronger, Happier. A Breast Cancer Journal

You Have High Self-Esteem, Right?

My weaknesses, my wrinkles, my weight, waste and wussiness.

My inner-critic’s bounced right back to full-time abuse.

It’s powerful. It’s persistent.
But it’s no match for my gratitude.

Those bullying thoughts bombard me.
As they always have.
But I bash each one. Because I’m glad to be here.

I’m alive. I’m healthy.
And, bit by bit, that inner-critic’s going down.

Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

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Andrea Posted by Andrea January 29, 2011

January 29, 2011 at 7:54 am.


  • http://www.the3day.org/goto/Jenny.Sinanan2011 Jenny Sinanan

    Gratitude. Inner-critic. Hmmm. And the winner is…

  • Andree O’Donnell

    I am assuming gratitude won…I am also going to try that bashing thing…maybe it will work for me too!

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    Jenny, Andree: It’s an ongoing battle. As in every waking moment of every day. But, given that I have never really stood up to my inner-critic before, the mere fact that I meet each criticism with a quick reminder that I’m glad to be alive and healthy is huge. And gives me hope I’ll win, eventually.Hoping you do too!

  • Laurie

    You are an amazing woman, Andrea. And I identified so incredibly strongly with this post. Thanks for sharing.

  • http://www.WeCanRebuildHer.com Andrea Ross

    Thank you, Laurie. That means a lot to me.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sriram-Venkataraman/642616153 Sriram Venkataraman

    Andrea, what an amazing post !! Somehow, this post is triggering a lot of emotions in me about gratitude for everything in life.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Sriram-Venkataraman/642616153 Sriram Venkataraman

    The photos are lovely, too. Must be your good old Kingston days.

  • janice

    Hurrah to you for standing up to your inner critic. Gratitude will win. Soon she will back down for hours, then days, then weeks at a time. Mine comes back with a vengeance sometimes. but after years of facing her down, she is no longer a constant companion. nnI am here, cheering you on, every day. YOU GO GIRL!!!!