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Happy Birthday, My Baby

Twelve years ago today, our beautiful Lucy was born.

Thank you, Lucy, for sharing your warmth, your wisdom, your wit, your creativity, your love, your courage, your perspective, your passion, your steadiness of self. And thank you for your patience with us as we stumble recklessly into each new parenting realm.

I love you, my baby sweet.

Wishing you many, many, many more years of happiness and good health.

Love always,
Mom
xoxoxoxox



Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

Andrea Posted by Andrea August 24, 2011

August 24, 2011 at 1:14 am.

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Am I Touching Something?

“You can keep them bottled up, but they will come out, Michael. Sometimes in the most unexpected… Hey, where the @!*# are my hard-boiled eggs?!

– Tobias Fünke. Good Grief! Arrested Development 2004.

My life is brimming with beautiful people. Wise, interesting, creative, curious, passionate, compassionate, generous, articulate, level-headed, fun-loving people.

I’m lucky.

So I’m always shocked at the hair-trigger hostility I stumble into. Seemingly reasonable people who spray me with hatred over a sideways glance.

It confuses me.

Are they stretched to the breaking point struggling to maintain some decent facade? Are they barely bottling up frustration, dissatisfaction, loneliness, insecurity, envy and rage? And why bother spewing venom at inconsequential me?

In the online world, it’s especially easy to lay out and examine entire interactions. And I’ve often done just that. Weighing a scant response from me against the lengthy and personal ferocity that results.

And my confusion remains.

But I’m learning to scrounge up some compassion for their barely bound pain. Beam some healing, happy vibes.

And move on.



Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

Andrea Posted by Andrea August 15, 2011

August 15, 2011 at 11:12 am.

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Backtalk and Fighting and Glares. Oh My.

They sure looked innocent back then.

Actually, they still look pretty innocent.


I’m sure being trapped on a train with them for six days will improve things for all of us.

Wait a minute…



Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

Andrea Posted by Andrea August 11, 2011

August 11, 2011 at 12:13 pm.

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Living What Counts



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Andrea Posted by Andrea August 9, 2011

August 9, 2011 at 11:38 am.

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Attention. Here and Now.

“The ego believes that through negativity it can manipulate reality and get what it wants. It believes that through it, it can attract a desirable condition or dissolve an undesirable one…

..whenever you are unhappy, there is the unconscious belief that the unhappiness “buys” you what you want. If [you] did not believe that unhappiness works, why would you create it?

The fact is, of course, that negativity does not work. Instead of attracting a desirable condition, it stops one from arising. Instead of dissolving an undesirable condition, it keeps it in place….

But as long as negativity is there, use it. Use it as a kind of signal that reminds you to be more present.”

– Eckhart Tolle, “The Power of Now“.



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Andrea Posted by Andrea August 9, 2011

August 9, 2011 at 7:51 am.

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Join Us October 2

If you’ll be in Ottawa October 2, 2011, we’d love you to join Mark, Bayla, myself and our team mates for a beautiful 5km saunter along the Ottawa River to raise funds for the Canadian Breast Cancer Foundation.

You can register for our No Pink For Profit team, here.

Hope to see you there!

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Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

Andrea Posted by Andrea August 7, 2011

August 7, 2011 at 1:47 pm.

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Have We Done Hair Orange Glasses On?

Low maintenance Alberta-bound Bank-Street-Construction-orange.

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Andrea Ross was diagnosed with breast cancer October 6, 2009 and intends to survive and thrive. You can read more from Andrea here.

Andrea Posted by Andrea August 5, 2011

August 5, 2011 at 4:07 pm.

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Happiness Is…

Carefree times with my healthy, happy, healing, better-than-ever Sweet!



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Andrea Posted by Andrea August 2, 2011

August 2, 2011 at 3:39 pm.

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